The WHY question!

The WHY question,  is often the question most of us ask ourselves and other around us in so many situations and circumstances that comes our ways as we live life having fun and staying focused on our goals and dreams, This three letter word question has become to an extent a way/means for some persons to release stress or subdue emotions. The BIG  question is, does the answers to this question come up immediately we scream why?. The answer is a strong NO!

Asking WHY to me most times seems like a wastage of our precious time because there are certain times, situation and circumstances where we ask WHY that only amounts to total nonsense because it will take eternity for the answer to the WHY this and  WHY that happened in that particular time, situation and circumstance to come, so it is better not to ask why and just keep quiet observing events as they unfold so that the very lessons which such times, situations and circumstances carries will rightly be learned and understood.

Personally, there are certain events that have happened to me starting from childhood to where I am today and I have asked the WHY questions but it has been more or less a disappointment to me that I still search for the answers even till date but have not found any to the numerous WHY questions which I have asked and as such I have learned never to ask the WHY question again.

Life itself is a journey, as such we must encounter ugly situations and circumstances which will pose as threats to our present life and the life we wish for ourselves in the future but with the understanding that nothing in life comes easy, we should stare these ugly situations in the face with positivity rather that asking the WHY question which will only leave us devastated and deprived of our right to control and dominate over wherever we find ourselves and whatever we encounter either wile living life or on our way to the top.

So WHY ask WHY when you know the answer will take eternity to come?

So WHY ask WHY when asking might make you go rebellious?

So WHY ask WHY when you have not even learnt a single lessons from such situations?

So WHY ask WHY when it will amount to wastage of your useful time and cause you pains in return?

So WHY ask WHY when you certainly know it will leave you much burdens than what you are faced with?

So WHY ask WHY when you do not even expect answers?

Conclusively, asking the WHY question is not wrong because it could help you subdue emotions and release stress but be careful in your asking so as not to increase the burdens which comes with living life either in the positive or negative.

Written By

Ahiamadu Jackson Samuel