Actions, they could abuse us if they had mouths!

Today has been a not too good day because it all started with the news of a loss which nothing can feel up, amidst this the day was quite interesting not until some strange events started to spring up because of what I will rather call "Lack of human sympathy". This actually kept me thinking because of the one reason that men will call you their friend but the moment you leave this world and it actually become their turn to at least pay you the last respect they turn around and value themselves and their pursuits notwithstanding how hard men will try to put them on the right side so as to make them see reasons why they should not go the path that they have chosen to go. 

This got me seriously thinking and in the midst of my thoughts something suddenly sprang up and that's that

"IF OUR ACTIONS COULD TALK, MOST TIMES THEY COULD ABUSE AND LAY CURSES UPON US FOR THE PATH WE DRAG THEM TO DUE TO CHOICES WE MAKE IN LIFE".

Perplexed? Yes you would be but this is really true because most times we just do things that we are not meant to do hence abusing and making ourselves a scorn to people who really shouldn't have seen us in that view.

Hence, our actions most times will abuse and lay strange curses on us if they could talk and do things that we as humans usually do. This is because most times we as humans are rather not comfortable with the actions we take but because we value ourselves more than the way we value others and the extent to which our actions at any time will affect them it becomes totally irrelevant for us to think and understand the extent to which our actions would hurt us and abuse us even if they cannot really talk as we humans do. They can abuse us in the sense that the actions we take most times which might not be in the right direction will certainly leave us with self guilt that might probably last a life time and as such this becomes a curse on us due to the fact that all through life we will live with this self guilt which if not watched will drive us to repeating same actions over and over again with our self guilt increasing and this will definitely lead us to that state were we can't really forgive ourself for the actions of the past which did bring hurt to the hearts of men.

   Having said all this, why take actions when you know it will certainly be detrimental to you all through life? I think the answer lies in the fact that the human mind and self is that which is governed by selfishness and ruled by the value for self rather that the value for others and this leads us to taking actions without thinking about the effect of it to others first and then to ourself too.

 So friends be careful about the actions you take daily so that you don't get to leave with "Had I known" all through your life because of a single action. 

                                Be careful so that you don't get to be a judge against yourself......

Ahiamadu Jackson Samuel